Welcome to Life Love Marriage Divorce.

I created Life Love Marriage Divorce as a resource to encourage and engage in candid conversations regarding relationships, parenting, sex, and social issues. It is my belief that compassionate communication in a non-judgmental safe environment is needed in order to heal old wounds, inspire, and understand one another through our journey. We will experience trials and tribulations but most importantly we will overcome and triumph because God has a plan to prosper and not to harm.

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Trusting God’s Plan for me

My Life Love Marriage Divorce journey caused me to challenge, evaluate, and self improve within. I needed to be honest, release attachments, and trust God. I could no longer profess to believe in God; I needed to surrender and trust Him completely. There are no surprises to God regarding my life because He is the author and illustrator of it all. I am so happy that I finally moved out of the way so that He could lead and guide me in ultimately reaching my highest good.

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Begin or end your day with Blessings & Love daily devotional. Each devotion contains biblical scriptures and inspirational messages of encouragement. Intimately spend time with God and you will begin living your spiritual awakening in His presence, blessings, & love.

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The LifeLoveMarriageDivorce journal is your personal time to reflect and acknowledge what’s occurring in your life. Journaling the highs and lows of the day is cathartic and necessary for self improvement. Your written thoughts will awaken you to the realities of life and inspire you to reach your highest good in LifeLoveMarriageDivorce.

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LLMD Episode 20-The Joy of Finding Your Passion In Serving Others with Special Guest, Bruce Allen aka “The Goat Father”

Special Guest Bruce Allen has a genuine heart to serve, but it doesn’t avoid the pain of losing loved ones or becoming the caretake to your beloved mother who faces many health challenges. However, he has found a way to remain joyful and view life from a different & more appreciative perspective. Listen to Bruce’s story as a son, caretaker, Madison High School alumni, TCU football equipment manager, community servant, and his remarkably funny story […]

LLMD Episode 19-It’s Time to Live and Apply The Love You Give Others To Yourself By Checking Those To Do List Items Off Your List!

Sometimes we put our dreams and desires on hold for all the right or admirable reasons. However, many those dreams go unfilled. One thing we all know is that life is precious and short. I encourage you to start your self love journey and actively begin accomplishing the things on your to do list, today!

Bonjour! It’s Time to Live and Apply The Love You Give Others To Yourself By Checking Those To Do List Items Off Your List!

It’s July and we are half way through 2019. July also happens to be my birth month in which I recently celebrated my 49th Birthday. As I reflect over my life, I realize that I put many of my to do list goals on the back burner. As a mother of 4 and once married woman, I did this frequently. I have no regrets in the sacrifices made for the people I love because it’s […]

LLMD Episode 18-Part 2, With Special Guest Sharee Hargrove Wiley. What Do You Do When Your Spouse of 17 Years of Marriage Tells Your 12 and 9 Year Old Daughters that He is Gay?

How do you respond when your spouse tells you that he is gay after 17 years of marriage, and now reveals his truth to your 12 and 9 year old daughters? Sharee Hargrove Wiley shares how her daughters reacted to their father’s truth.  Continue to be amazed at Sharee’s strength, maturity, and compassion as she explains how they continued being a family during her LifeLoveMarriageDivorce journey.

LLMD Episode 17-What Do You Do When Your Spouse of 17 Years of Marriage Tells You That He Is Gay? Special Guest, Sharee Hargrove Wiley Tells Us Exactly What She Did.

What do you do? What do you think? What do you Say? How do you react when your spouse tells you that he is gay after 17 years of marriage? Sharee Hargrove Wiley shares her story of compassion and understanding to the father of her 2 daughters, college sweetheart, and friend. Prepare to be amazed and inspired by her powerful LifeLoveMarriageDivorce journey of truth and grace.

LLMD Episode 16-Finding Your Passion In Order To Establish Your Purpose with Special Guest, NFL Scout Alonzo Dotson

Alonzo Dotson earned a football scholarship and played for legendary University of Oklahoma head coach, Bob Stoops. Alonzo comes from a football/sports family, his grandfather and uncle played in The NFL.  Alonzo plans were to continue the Dotson NFL legacy as a player but he didn’t make the final cut. Although his NFL dreams didn’t turn out as planned, the Dotson NFL legacy would continue in an even greater way. Alonzo’s passion for the game […]

LLMD Episode 15- The Only Way To Survive Is With A New Heart! Special Guest, Carla Dawson Shares a Powerful Testimony of How Her Husband Survived Cancer and Heart Failure. Listen to How A Heart Transplant Changed His Life; and How Carla’s Heart was Transformed During The Process.

What happens when you are told at 22 years old that you have 2 weeks to live due to a rare form of cancer? What happens when you beat the cancer that was supposed to take your life only to be diagnosed with heart failure and in order to live, you’ll need a heart transplant. Wife, Mother, and SB Nation Radio Show Host Carla Dawson shares the story of her husband, Cole’s heart transplant journey. […]

LLMD Episode 14-A Father’s Love For His Son. Listen to how Special Guest, Michael Champion Jr. went to court and won sole custody of his son.

Michael Champion Jr. is a father who loves his son dearly. He knew that his son wasn’t living in an environment that would help him thrive or reach his full potential; so Michael took his case to court and won. Listen to Michael’s experience and words of wisdom as a father, entrepreneur, author, and homebuilder.

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Comments from Readers

  • Lisa Eason

    I try to read your post as they inspire me even when I find it hard to believe in myself you push me to believe in so much more. I strive to be even the tiniest bit like you for others as you have been for me! With my body fighting me everyday I look to your words of encouragement and to our God and I know that I can get through the worst of it. Fibromyalgia is an ugly and painful diagnosis but I choose to live better through Christ! I choose to not take the nasty narcotics and chose to care for my family instead. There are bad days but I push through them and I notice I look for your words in those moments. You are a wonderful mentor.
    I thank God that I have you to look up to!

  • Tevie Monk

    Monique truly has a special gift – the ability to listen without judging, inspire without being overbearing, and give without wanting anything in return. She provides advice and insight to encourage others, and I have been lucky enough to experience these gifts first-hand. Thank you, Monique, for your encouraging words. I am forever grateful to know you!

  • Troy Jefferson, Program Manager, Child & Adolescent Services Dept.Riverside General Hospital

    It is with great honor that we here at Riverside General Hospital salute Mrs. Monique Dotson for her dedication and quality of service she provides for our youth in the Winners’ Journey program. She has implemented a successful Yoga program to our youth, and facilitates her services weekly to all of our female teens with great anticipation. Her services have become a vital part of our client’s weekly schedule, acknowledging that the majority of our clientele are lacking positive self-esteem, anger management and coping skills when they become upset. Our youth and staff always look forward to her instruction and ideas offered to help them make better choices in life instead of always reacting on poor impulsive behaviors. Mrs. Dotson is a very honest and caring individual, who has no problem respecting the ideas and reasoning of others, and this is why all those who attend her Yoga sessions enjoy her so much. We appreciate her greatly and value her services. She has definitely made our youths lives better, and for that reason, we all thank her a million and wish her more success in all of her future endeavors.

  • B.Jones

    I have known Monique for 25 years and I have always been inspired by her words of encouragement. I met Monique through my then boyfriend, now husband. She was my first counselor, that is partly why my husband and I survived through our early twenties. Monique is easy to talk to because she listens and responds with a Christians point of view. She will never tell you what you want to hear, her words are always honest, insightful and spoken with love. When she is present she commands your ear. She will keep you engaged with her conversation and you will leave feeling like you can conquer the world. I am a better person having met her and I am blessed to have her in my life.

  • Marjorie

    What do you say about an individual who puts others in front of herself? What do you say about an individual who constantly wants the best out of each situation? What do you say to an individual who truly listens to your concerns and guides you through your thinking process without your realizing it? What do you say about an individual who keeps FAITH in spite of it ALL. You call her a TRUE FRIEND… SISTER…MOTHER…COUSIN..etc. I simply call her my sister Monique.
    We are not blood related but I feel she treats me as if I am!!
    You have the GIFT of ENCOURAGEMENT and EMPOWERMENT !!!
    Stay as you are….

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