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I created Life Love Marriage Divorce as a resource to encourage and engage in candid conversations regarding relationships, parenting, sex, and social issues. It is my belief that compassionate communication in a non-judgmental safe environment is needed in order to heal old wounds, inspire, and understand one another through our journey. We will experience trials and tribulations but most importantly we will overcome and triumph because God has a plan to prosper and not to harm.

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Trusting God’s Plan for me

My Life Love Marriage Divorce journey caused me to challenge, evaluate, and self improve within. I needed to be honest, release attachments, and trust God. I could no longer profess to believe in God; I needed to surrender and trust Him completely. There are no surprises to God regarding my life because He is the author and illustrator of it all. I am so happy that I finally moved out of the way so that He could lead and guide me in ultimately reaching my highest good.

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LLMD Episode 45-Valentine’s Day is Near and Love is in the Air. Special Guest, Jeff and Gwen Turner are great Examples of what Real Love looks like after Divorce. Listen to their Love Story of Finding Love the 2nd Time Around and How Marrying your Best Friend is The Key to a Successful & Long Lasting Relationship.

Special Guest, Jeff and Gwen Turner share their story of how 2 co-workers became best friends and would eventually marry. Although, Jeff was attracted to Gwen when he first saw her, she wasn’t interested in him at all. Listen to how Jeff won the heart of a woman who had her guards up after divorce. Jeff knew what he wanted in a partner and Gwen was it. His patience and persistence eventually won her heart […]

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LLMD Episode 44-Special Guest, Sargent Trinity Delafance shares His Powerful Testimony of Finding Out His Mother was Schizophrenic; and the Trauma He Felt in Being the One who found Her Deceased Decomposed Body upon Returning Home from a Funeral.

Sargent Trinity Delafance shares his story of his mother only being 15 years old when she gave birth to him. The odds were against them as she was told to abort him but she refused. They would eventually leave Louisiana for Texas. Years later Trinity’s life would change forever when he was called to the hospital and found out that his mom was schizophrenic. Her mental health would be one of the greatest challenges he […]

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Should I Open My Heart to Love Again?

It’s February; and Valentine’s Day will be upon us to shower our love ones with flowers, chocolates and gifts. However, love can be the furtherest thing from the mind of a person who has experienced a breakup, separation, or divorce. The thought of love in the air can be a turn off or the thought of meeting someone and becoming vulnerable all over again after heartbreak may cause one to simply say never again. I […]

LLMD Episode 43-A Walk of Faith from Engineer to Carpentry. Founder & CEO Brandon Wilson shares How he Turned his Passion into a Successful Custom Carpentry Company.

Wilson Custom Carpentry Founder & CEO, Brandon Wilson sits at the mic to discuss how he worked across the globe as an engineer. He tells how his work travels caused him to become so ill that he experienced temporary blindness; and things only got worse when informed that he had been laid off during his vacation. However, he would soon realize that God was gently guiding his steps to walk out on faith and turn […]

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LLMD Episode 42-What is The Daniel Fast and Why Should I Do It?

Last week Sunshine’s Health Food Store and Vegetarian Deli Owner, Agra Bourgeois Davis shared some helpful tips about how to cleanse and detoxify the body by making healthier lifestyle food choices. We mentioned the Daniel Fast during our interview but the Daniel Fast has a deeper meaning than a change in diet; it’s a spiritual cleanse. Listen to Monique Davis Dotson explains the significance of The Daniel Fast.

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LLMD Episode 41-Happy New Year! Let’s Start 2020 with Healthy Lifestyle Food Choices! Sunshine’s Health Food Store & Vegetarian Deli, Owner & CEO Arga Bourgeois Davis shares great tips of how to start the New Year off with a Healthy Body!

LLMD Episode 41-Happy New Year LifeLoveMarriageDivorce Listeners! Sunshine’s Health Food Store & Vegetarian Deli, Owner & CEO Arga Bourgeois Davis shares great tips of how to start 2020 off with a Healthy Body. Arga explains how the death of her grandmother inspired her father to implement change in their family’s diet. She shares how eliminating certain foods from her diet improved her health. You will be inspired by her expertise and advice regarding the importance […]

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Welcome 2020!

When I think about 2010-2019, I think about the challenges, the obstacles, the heartache, the lessons, and the blessings. In 2009, I separated from my husband. I wondered how was I going to make it, trying to take care of my 4 kids and myself. My finances were challenged, my heart was broken but I never stopped believing that God would somehow make away. There were many nights that I cried and prayed alone in […]

LLMD Episode 40-Learning what More than an Athlete really means after her first year as a D1 Student-Athlete at the University of Oklahoma. Special Guest, Sanaá Dotson sits at the Mic to share her Story about Overcoming Adversity from Shoulder Surgery months before reporting to College. Listen to her testimony of learning what it means to be All in with God and Working Hard to get Back on the Court to play the Sport she loves.

This is Our Last Podcast in 2019. LifeLoveMarriageDivorce Podcast will return to the Mic on January 7, 2020. I am extremely proud to have my daughter, Sanaá also known as my twin; who is a student- athlete at The University of Oklahoma, where she was awarded a full scholarship to play volleyball join me at the mic to discuss why she chose The University of Oklahoma. She shares what it means to be more than […]

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Comments from Readers

  • Lisa Eason

    I try to read your post as they inspire me even when I find it hard to believe in myself you push me to believe in so much more. I strive to be even the tiniest bit like you for others as you have been for me! With my body fighting me everyday I look to your words of encouragement and to our God and I know that I can get through the worst of it. Fibromyalgia is an ugly and painful diagnosis but I choose to live better through Christ! I choose to not take the nasty narcotics and chose to care for my family instead. There are bad days but I push through them and I notice I look for your words in those moments. You are a wonderful mentor.
    I thank God that I have you to look up to!

  • Tevie Monk

    Monique truly has a special gift – the ability to listen without judging, inspire without being overbearing, and give without wanting anything in return. She provides advice and insight to encourage others, and I have been lucky enough to experience these gifts first-hand. Thank you, Monique, for your encouraging words. I am forever grateful to know you!

  • Troy Jefferson, Program Manager, Child & Adolescent Services Dept.Riverside General Hospital

    It is with great honor that we here at Riverside General Hospital salute Mrs. Monique Dotson for her dedication and quality of service she provides for our youth in the Winners’ Journey program. She has implemented a successful Yoga program to our youth, and facilitates her services weekly to all of our female teens with great anticipation. Her services have become a vital part of our client’s weekly schedule, acknowledging that the majority of our clientele are lacking positive self-esteem, anger management and coping skills when they become upset. Our youth and staff always look forward to her instruction and ideas offered to help them make better choices in life instead of always reacting on poor impulsive behaviors. Mrs. Dotson is a very honest and caring individual, who has no problem respecting the ideas and reasoning of others, and this is why all those who attend her Yoga sessions enjoy her so much. We appreciate her greatly and value her services. She has definitely made our youths lives better, and for that reason, we all thank her a million and wish her more success in all of her future endeavors.

  • B.Jones

    I have known Monique for 25 years and I have always been inspired by her words of encouragement. I met Monique through my then boyfriend, now husband. She was my first counselor, that is partly why my husband and I survived through our early twenties. Monique is easy to talk to because she listens and responds with a Christians point of view. She will never tell you what you want to hear, her words are always honest, insightful and spoken with love. When she is present she commands your ear. She will keep you engaged with her conversation and you will leave feeling like you can conquer the world. I am a better person having met her and I am blessed to have her in my life.

  • Marjorie

    What do you say about an individual who puts others in front of herself? What do you say about an individual who constantly wants the best out of each situation? What do you say to an individual who truly listens to your concerns and guides you through your thinking process without your realizing it? What do you say about an individual who keeps FAITH in spite of it ALL. You call her a TRUE FRIEND… SISTER…MOTHER…COUSIN..etc. I simply call her my sister Monique.
    We are not blood related but I feel she treats me as if I am!!
    You have the GIFT of ENCOURAGEMENT and EMPOWERMENT !!!
    Stay as you are….

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