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What’s Your Love Language?

On my October, LifeLoveMarriageDivorce Podcast my guest and I mentioned The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. If you haven’t read this book, I highly recommended it. Dr. Chapman writes about 5 love languages that identify how we prefer to be loved. After my podcast, I decided to revisit my book that is marked with highlights on almost every page. It was helpful in identifying the love language that speaks directly to my heart. […]

Rules For Divorce

Most couples get married with the intent of honoring their martial vows until death due them part. However, what’s intended doesn’t always occur. Unfortunately, divorce happens to many of us but it’s not because people don’t try. I thought I would be married forever but realized that my thoughts weren’t aligned with my reality. The idea of marrying my high school sweetheart appeared to be the next logical step in our relationship. We definitely loved […]

We Do Not See Things As They Are-We See Them As We Are

“We do not see things as they are. We see them as we are.” — The Talmud What a profound quote of awakening if we dare to be honest about how we see ourselves. For instance, if you have a negative outlook on life then skepticism will prevent you from not trusting others. If you were betrayed in a relationship then bitterness may cause you to believe that “all men and women cheat” which clearly […]

Bonjour! It’s Time to Live and Apply The Love You Give Others To Yourself By Checking Those To Do List Items Off Your List!

It’s July and we are half way through 2019. July also happens to be my birth month in which I recently celebrated my 49th Birthday. As I reflect over my life, I realize that I put many of my to do list goals on the back burner. As a mother of 4 and once married woman, I did this frequently. I have no regrets in the sacrifices made for the people I love because it’s […]

Knowing What You Deserve and Being With The One

Sometimes,  I see great quotes on social media and this one by Jm Storm caught my attention for many reasons. Number one, I am older and know that my LifeLoveMarriageDivorce journey has opened my eyes to an understanding and awakening of what I truly want & deserve. Experience and maturation has also awakened me to valuing my worth, my time and no longer settling for or pleasing others for the sake of being accepted at […]