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“The One That Got Away”

Relationships can be quite challenging  especially if you end up with the one you settled for instead of the one you really desire. For my married readers this blog may not apply to you personally if you happened to married the love of your life. But it can be useful to share with others who may be starting over or those you know settled in relationships that lacks peace and happiness causing one to reminisce […]

Learn To Love Yourself Well!

February is the month, we recognize Black History, President’s Day, and the most recognizable day of the year, in which we shower love ones with cards, flowers, and chocolates on the day of “love” known as Valentine’s Day. Love is a beautiful thing with the right person and it can be a dreadful thing with the wrong person. So it is imperative that we learn how to love ourselves well. When we love others better than […]

It’s Time for Something NEW!

It’s a wonder how time flies…It’s a new year; the year of 2019. As we begin this supposed year of New Beginnings, if New is what we actually seek, we must do things differently. The things we have procrastinated about or felt fearful of doing can no longer continue to be the “new normal” of professing our desires at the beginning of the year but holding on to our same way of life; especially if […]

December Detachment!

December, the last month of the year where there’s gift giving, children who believe that Santa’s reindeer really know how to fly, and religious celebrations. December also welcomes a year of review in which we take inventory of the good and not so good, highs and lows, pain and joy, struggles and blessings. We realize what worked well and what didn’t along our year long journey. We begin to make new commitments of how we’ll […]

Thankful For My Ex/Family

As the Thanksgiving weekend ends, I reflect over the many things I am most thankful for like my relationship with The Lord, my amazing kids, family, friends, good health and a roof over my head. I am thankful for my lifelovemarriagedivorce journey. The journey was filled with ups and downs, heartache and heart rebuilding. The journey taught me valuable lessons about what real love is and what it isn’t. I learned about the importance of forgiveness, […]